Cameron visited her dentist office and because her regular dentist was away she had her checkup with the new dentist on staff. He made quite an impression on her. She felt like they had a cosmic connection! Later, she did a little social media recon and learned that he was single. She returned to the office a few days later with thank-you-baked-goods for the ‘office staff’, yet had addressed the lovely cloth-wrapped package to Dr. Cutie, who she was hoping to see again. He came out to the waiting area, thanked her for the banana bread, they spoke for 15 minutes, she gave him her business card with contact information for the second time, then she left. She fully believed that her snare (I mean, plan) would work and he’d be calling her soon for a date. But, he never did call. In fact, two weeks later when Cameron ‘popped in’ again to the dental office, Dr. Cutie avoided her, even though they practically passed in the hallway. And while Cameron’s phone number was hand-delivered like a hot pizza, Dr. Cutie just wasn’t moved to dial, text, write, or contact her at all. Cameron will likely never know why. It’s just life and you don’t always get to know why.
Look, if someone wants to get a hold of you, they will. Period. You don’t have to be a dancing bear to get a mate’s attention (Da dadada dada da da da!). Bears shouldn’t dance; it’s unnatural and it doesn’t work. To anyone in Cameron’s shoes, I say—You’re wonderful; move on my dear!
You can be head-over-heels for someone because of their presence, what they give off energetically. You’d like to try out their energy, even if it’s different to where you currently are. You desire to experience (marinade in) that new vibration and then decide if you want to harmonize with it. You seek to find out for yourself what frequency fits you.
When opposites attract, each individual is intrigued by traits they do not possess. (Why were you attracted to the bad guy, or the party girl or just the wrong one?) You look to find out what you want to incorporate in your life.
Yet, to be in harmony with each other in the long-term, the two of you must equilibrate and in time be in harmonic presence (vibrate at a similar frequency). Opposites might attract, but likes stay connected to likes.
The same holds true when two individuals may meet while they are on the same vibrational level. However if they do not grow at a similar rate over time—or they grow in different directions—they are no longer attracting, but repelling.
Here’s an interesting phenomenon in nature: Water will always seek it’s own level. Incidentally, the average person is about 65% water! So, don’t try to force something to work, if you’re on level it won’t be work.
The best line that I ever got when being broken up with—and I mean this, it was a truly great line—was, “I just don’t feel it in my heart.” Well damn, I thought, I can’t argue with that!
When the fit is right and you and the other person are on level, you’ll know it.