Are you with the right person? Should you leave your current relationship in hopes of finding The One? Should you get back together?
Chronic confusion is always a sign of incongruent presence (the ‘setting’ of your vibrational energy).
When it comes to your partner in life, what you’re really looking for is your soul’s mate, right? So, how do you know when you’ve found them?
Your soulmate is no myth. Look for the path of Light.
Your soulmate will encourage your journey and your inspired dreams. For a relationship to work it must be mutually beneficial. Partners will take their turns inspiring and encouraging the other’s growth, not one growing and one stagnating.
A well-matched relationship should be easy, natural and uplifting. Your intentions and actions need to be moving in a similar direction, at a similar pace. Look for congruency.
Yet, before you study your partner’s intentions and actions, take an honest look at your own. Are you the kind of person that you would want to date or marry? Are you surrounding yourself with friends who keep you stagnant or allow you to fly? Is your people-picker off? Do you see the people around you only for what they can do to help you? Do you blindly keep doing the same things day-after-day, totally unaware that you’re moving in the wrong direction or not moving much at all? Are your actions congruent with your words? Are you making good choices and taking responsibility for your circumstances?
Mahatma Gandi said, “Be the change that you wish to see in the world.”
The great M.O.V.E says—Don’t just wait for The One; be The One…then they will show up!